My father did finally die

brucew44guns · Post by **brucew44guns** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:08 am

I posted about 6 weeks ago that my dad was dieing of cancer in California. He did finally expire this morning sometime after 3 AM Calif time. Many of you commented on that other post, telling me how valuable that last visit with him would be later on in my life, and you were totally right, I can see all that even now. I stayed about 5 days total last month on that trip, wish it could have been more,-----priceless. At least he will be out of pain and no more worries now. He had a great life, and left a lot of good behind him, to his credit. Thanks to all of you who expressed support, it's big time appreciated. Bruce

major · Post by **major** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:14 am

you and your family are in our prayers.

Leverdude · Post by **Leverdude** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:15 am

I'm sorry for your loss, but he is with God now.
You sure have my condolences!

C. Cash · Post by **C. Cash** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:16 am

Very sorry to hear this Bruce. My condolences and prayers going out to you and your family.

nemhed · Post by **nemhed** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:19 am

I lost my father 6 years ago. You and your family are in my prayers. Be thankful for the memories you have!

Tycer · Post by **Tycer** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:25 am

Heal well friend.

There is no death. What seems so is transition. All that is beautiful and good and true in human life is no more affected by the shadow of death than by the darkness that divides today from tomorrow.
Our paths lead not to the grave but through it. Immortal we are and ever shall be. We look not to another life, but to the perfecting of this one. In God's good time we shall be raised by His right hand to that higher, fairer phase of life for which this is only the preparation.

cnjarvis · Post by **cnjarvis** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:36 am

My condolences to you and your family.

Prayers sent.

Post by **Old Savage** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:49 am

My condolences, I look forward to seeing my own dad later - he passed on in 71.

Griff · Post by **Griff** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:04 am

My condolences and prayers, Bruce.

Modoc ED · Post by **Modoc ED** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:08 am

Sorry to hear that Bruce. My condolences to you and your family. Prayers up.

airedaleman · Post by **airedaleman** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:30 am

My sincere condolences. My father died in '75, and I still miss him. BUT we will all meet again with our loved ones, and all will be well. Our prayers will be with you.

Doc Hudson · Post by **Doc Hudson** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:35 am

MYat he rest in Peace.

You have my deepest sympathy. At least now he is no longer suffering. God Bless you all.

Doc

rangerider7 · Post by **rangerider7** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:37 am

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

kimwcook · Post by **kimwcook** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:38 am

My deepest condolences. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. And, you said it, he won't be hurting anymore.

Post by **Hobie** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:53 am

Yes, all of your family is in our prayers.

rjohns94 · Post by **rjohns94** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:57 am

Bruce,

May the memories always be fond and the love you shared remain close to you always. You and your family have my prayers.

blessings

jdad · Post by **jdad** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:17 am

Bruce,
You have my heartfelt sympathies. My father has cheated death 5 times in the last 15 years. I know his time is coming soon, but I'm fortunate that my parents moved within 4 miles of us, from CA, about 3 years ago. My son is able to do what I was not...bond with my grandfather.

gamekeeper · Post by **gamekeeper** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:27 am

My condolences to you and your family.

mklwhite · Post by **mklwhite** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:33 am

My condolences to you and your family as well. The pain and grief is behind him now and his presence will continue on in this world in your heart and deeds.

adirondakjack · Post by **adirondakjack** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:34 am

Sorrry to hear of your loss. Losing yer Dad is a life-altering event, no doubt about it. Mine's been gone almost 4 years, and there's still not a day goes by I don't misss him.

TedH · Post by **TedH** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 11:08 am

Sorry for your loss. Prayers offered.

Hagler · Post by **Hagler** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 11:45 am

Prayers said.

Shawn

2ndovc · Post by **2ndovc** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 12:21 pm

Very sorry Bruce.
Glad you had a few days with him before it happened.

jason

Mike D. · Post by **Mike D.** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 1:28 pm

My sincere condolences to you and your family, Bruce. I lost my dad 3 yrs ago, too.

iceman · Post by **iceman** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 1:33 pm

Sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad in 2000 and I still think of him almost every day. My thoughts and prayers for you and yours.

KirkD · Post by **KirkD** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:55 pm

Bruce, my sincerest sympathies. I'm glad you went to see him one last time. You will always be thankful you did.

Sixgun · Post by **Sixgun** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:15 pm

Bruce,
Tough loss my man. Most of us here have already experienced it and yes, not a day goes by without me thinking of my Dad. He was the reason why I am enjoying this great hobby today. He instilled it in me at an early age to which I will forever be eternally grateful.
Life goes on and be grateful you had a last good visit with him. In time, you guys will be back together again.------------Sixgun

horsesoldier03 · Post by **horsesoldier03** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:21 pm

I know the feeling all to well! God Bless you and your family! Prayers sent

spaceman spiff · Post by **spaceman spiff** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:52 pm

Bruce,

My Pops died a year ago but it was not sudden and out of the blue. Me
and all of the people close to him were able to assemble and say goodbye. What
a truly exceptional gift to see those you love before they depart. I'm gifted in
this matter, and so are you. I miss him terribly though, He was my best friend.

I'm sorry to hear of your loss.

Regards,

Troy

greasy dan · Post by **greasy dan** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 7:15 pm

Bruce...
You have had some Wonderful posts on this Forum. I am sure, like You... Your Dad was also a wonderful person. May his thoughts and memory always fill You and your family with Joy. This day... and those last days spent with him will continue to fill your thoughts for some time to come. I know your loss, brother Levergunner. Mine went on ahead just 7-months ago... probably to set up a Range or a good hunting spot for Your dad. Rest in Peace friend.

RIHMFIRE · Post by **RIHMFIRE** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 7:21 pm

prayers sent

jd45 · Post by **jd45** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 8:58 pm

Bruce, may your father's soul be cradled in the loving arms of God. jd45

Bogie35 · Post by **Bogie35** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:03 pm

I'm praying for you, Bruce. I wish you peace.

Sincerely,
bogie

CEMENTHEAD · Post by **CEMENTHEAD** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:20 pm

Condolences to you and your family...................................

Ron Macy · Post by **Ron Macy** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:33 pm

May HIS face shine upon you. I'll offer a prayer.

Post by **Ysabel Kid** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:17 pm

Bruce -

I am sorry for your loss. You are right - your Dad is now pain free and in Heaven. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, as you have been since letting us know.

Take care my friend!

20cows · Post by **20cows** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:35 pm

Godspeed!

GEOFF · Post by **GEOFF** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:59 pm

Bruce,

I sure want to convey my sincere condolences as well. Thankyou for updating us. I'm REALLY glad you went to see him to express and show your love for him.

Keep your chin up now, my friend! We are all pulling for you!

Geoff

Jaguarundi · Post by **Jaguarundi** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 12:02 am

Sorry for your loss.Godbless and be strong.

Noah Zark · Post by **Noah Zark** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:00 pm

Bruce, I'm very sorry for your loss, and at the same time happy for your father. You know what I mean. Also, I'm very glad that you got to spend some final time toghether and most likely your "goodbyes." That certainly helps; it helped me.

Also, welcome to the Dead Dads Club. Things will never be the same, but given time things will get easier to cope with your father gone. My own father died on 12 April 1997, almost 12 years now. I still miss him, and my mother still has to cope with the loss living in the house they built and in which raised their family. She was in a "lost funk" for about a year and a half but since early 1999 she's through it and moving on.

But that said, some days it's just like yesterday . . .

Prayers and best wishes for you and yourd during this difficult time.

Noah

1886 · Post by **1886** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 5:25 pm

Very sorry for your loss Bruce. Hopefully you both have found some peace. Prayers offered. Take Care, 1886.