OT -Until we meat again my friends

Doc Hudson · Post by **Doc Hudson** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:01 am

After almost 19 years of marriage, my wife and I are calling it quits.

I will be moving out of the house Tuesday and will be moving back to South Alabama.

I won't have internet connection for a while, but I will check in when I can.

If any of you want to know my new address and phone number, drop me a PM, I'll try to get them answered before I unplug the confuser Tuesday morning.

If you would, I'd appreciate it if you'd keep Marcia and I both in your prayers. This isn't easy for either of us.

mescalero1 · Post by **mescalero1** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:05 am

Doc,
It is not good, I hope your spirit finds the true path.
I will go the water canyon........ and make a thing for you.

C. Cash · Post by **C. Cash** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:09 am

Prayers going up Doc! Take it slow and come back when you can.

don Tomás · Post by **don Tomás** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:20 am

That's tough, Doc. You're both in our prayers...
Tom

handirifle · Post by **handirifle** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:25 am

Doc
Sorry to hear the news. Already prayed for the two of you.

Griff · Post by **Griff** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:40 am

handirifle wrote:Doc
Sorry to hear the news. Already prayed for the two of you.

Ditto.

Mokwaw · Post by **Mokwaw** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:43 am

Awww man...

......prayers are up.

Blaine · Post by **Blaine** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:03 am

I'm sorry, Sir......I hope everything works out for the best.....

claybob86 · Post by **claybob86** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:06 am

Mokwaw wrote:Awww man... ......prayers are up.

+1.

reo · Post by **reo** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 4:00 am

Hopefully, distance makes the heart grow fonder. Best wishes.

gamekeeper · Post by **gamekeeper** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 5:35 am

Sorry to here that Doc. I know what it's like.

Borregos · Post by **Borregos** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 6:41 am

Sorry to hear that, prayers sent.

okdee · Post by **okdee** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 7:39 am

Prayers to you and her. It is an ugly, ugly, ugly time period. Just remember to keep stepping up.

Best Wishes,

Oklahoma Dee

AJMD429 · Post by **AJMD429** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 8:00 am

don Tomás wrote:That's tough, Doc. You're both in our prayers...
Tom

+1

nemhed · Post by **nemhed** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 8:36 am

You and your wife have my prayers!

mod71alaska · Post by **mod71alaska** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 8:55 am

Mokwaw wrote:Awww man... ......prayers are up.

+ 1

Just remember, Doc, time heals and you're going to feel better. A friend told me that years ago. It was hard to believe but it's true.

Tycer · Post by **Tycer** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:17 am

Heal well friend. You and your wife.
I hope you both can find the kindness to treat each other fairly, with dignity and integrity.
I hope neither of you "roll over" and your split is equitably designed. There's books on how to split stuff up.

If the two of you are truly not the ones for each other, I pray God sends you both your true life partners and grants you both the wisdom to grab hold and never let go!

J Miller · Post by **J Miller** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:44 am

Doc,

Sorry to hear about this. Hang in there, you'll get through it. We'll leave a light on for you.

Joe

Charles · Post by **Charles** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:50 am

I am so sorry for you both. Be assured of my prayers. Don't either of you burn any bridges, for after a period of hurt and pain will come a time of introspection and learning. With some space and time, both of you will be able to see how you could have made the marriage more workable. Perhaps there will be another chance for you both. I know, you can't see that now, but time changes all things.

C. Cash · Post by **C. Cash** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:53 am

Charles wrote:I am so sorry for you both. Be assured of my prayers. Don't either of you burn any bridges, for after a period of hurt and pain will come a time of introspection and learning. With some space and time, both of you will be able to see how you could have made the marriage more workable. Perhaps there will be another chance for you both. I know, you can't see that now, but time changes all things.

+1....my hope as well, and more prayer going up Doc.

DennisD · Post by **DennisD** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:26 am

I feel for both of you. After 21 years togeather, 7 years ago my ex told me she was moving in with another woman. I lost my best friend. I know it's tough but take it from me, it will get better with time. Fill your life with the things you like doing most and remember; it will get better.

Post by **Ysabel Kid** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:00 pm

Hate to hear that Doc. Prayers up for you both...

rjohns94 · Post by **rjohns94** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:41 pm

My prayers are with you. Please PM your contact info to me. Blessings.

Nath · Post by **Nath** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:28 pm

Shucks

I don't mind saying we struggle at times, it's tough and sincere best wishes for both ya's.

Nath.

1886 · Post by **1886** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:30 pm

Very sorry to hear of this but unfortunately I know what you are experiencing. It is kind of like getting kicked in the gut. It does STINK. Best Wishes, 1886.

Grizz · Post by **Grizz** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:42 pm

Charles wrote:I am so sorry for you both. Be assured of my prayers. Don't either of you burn any bridges, for after a period of hurt and pain will come a time of introspection and learning. With some space and time, both of you will be able to see how you could have made the marriage more workable. Perhaps there will be another chance for you both. I know, you can't see that now, but time changes all things.

my sentiments exactly.

prayers up for you and your wife, go well friend.

GANJIRO · Post by **GANJIRO** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:54 pm

WOW This is unexpected and sad news especially when seeing the support you gave each other over the years. I wish you both the best in your futures. Please don't be a stranger and make it back here as soon as possible, friends need friends and you have always been a good one. Prayer for you both my friend.

Rexster · Post by **Rexster** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:36 pm

I am truly sorry to read this. Prayers up for both of y'all.

O.S.O.K. · Post by **O.S.O.K.** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 3:11 pm

Wow, sorry to hear that. Prayers sent.

Scott Young · Post by **Scott Young** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 3:45 pm

doc, i will pray for you and your wife.

my heart goes out to yall as divorce is only takes victims. all i can say is find a good friend that will be able to build you and her up to confide in. you spent many years with great memories. don't let those be overshadowed by the hurt.

may the Lord be with you.

2ndovc · Post by **2ndovc** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 4:48 pm

Sorry to hear that Doc.

It's tough but eventually things get better.

Check in when you can.

jason

iceman · Post by **iceman** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 4:52 pm

Sorry to hear that Doc. Prayers for both of you. Things can only get better best wishes. Hurry back soon.

pharmseller · Post by **pharmseller** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 5:28 pm

iceman wrote:Sorry to hear that Doc. Prayers for both of you. Things can only get better best wishes. Hurry back soon.

+1
An ugly, ugly thing, but sometimes necessary.
Just hang on. Time heals.

P

kimwcook · Post by **kimwcook** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:17 pm

Real sorry to hear that, Doc. It's never an easy thing to go through. Prayers for the both of you.

DixieBoy · Post by **DixieBoy** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:36 pm

Doc - I only know you from your posts here, but I've come to enjoy your thinking on things. Many of us here have been through this heartbreak. I would just like to say that there's life on the other side of it, though initially, that may seem almost impossible. I'll say a prayer for you both as well, and I hope that we all hear from soon. - DixieBoy

Mutt · Post by **Mutt** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:41 pm

Prayers sent Sir,
I've had too split 3 times, and this present marriage ( 4 th ) is the best of all . Didn't know it could be so good. Remember , Hold your head up and walk TALL !

......................................Mutt

dbord130 · Post by **dbord130** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 5:26 am

Going through the same now. Was with her for eighteen years.I didn't have a clue that anything was wrong.You have my prayers.

1886 · Post by **1886** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 5:59 am

[quote="dbord130"]Going through the same now. Was with her for eighteen years.I didn't have a clue that anything was wrong.You have my prayers.[/quote

Ain't that the truth. Welcome aboard. 1886.

edwardyoung · Post by **edwardyoung** » Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:39 pm

My deepest condolences, Doc.

Post by **Hobie** » Wed Feb 04, 2009 10:31 pm

I'm locking this because they are trying again!