Sadly I dont really have one anymore. Its been 4 years but it still pains me a little on just this day. Memories are like that, great things to have but they bring a longing too.
We used to go to my dads sisters house, my Aunt Barbera & my Godmother too. They lived next door to my grandparents so its just the way things developed.
She'd make a ham & we'd bring a turkey with the fixins. Along with that ham she made sweet potatos, stuffed baked regular taters, vegies & everything under the sun.
It was really more of a Christmas than the next morning now as I look back. Getting to see everyone in a relaxed manner, we'd get there before noon & pass the day talking & shareing in the way close families do. Never realized it at the time, how truly blessed & dern lucky I was. Towards the end we'd have 4 generations laughing & enjoying life together, I can only hope my kids realize how blessed they were to have great grandparents. They still have one, my grandmother is still alive, 93 years old & still fit but she's got Alzheimers pretty bad now & is in a home. She'll be with us tomorrow at my sisters, I'm still blessed.
Anyway 6 years ago my grandfather died at 94 years old, it hit my Aunt pretty bad. She did the routine for 2 more years before it fizzled. That was the year she put Grandma in the home. By then the families had grown & all the kids had kids & we drifted apart.
My mom did it last year but she's recovering from sucessful breast cancer surgery last week. That popped up pretty quick, less than a month ago they found it, diagnosed it & took it out. I barely had time to digest the idea of my mom with cancer. She's up & about fine other than a bit of discomfort. They took the tumor & the nearest limf nodes from what I gather. The nodes they took to see if it had spread & it hadn't.
So, like I said, I'm traditionless at the moment for this day. But theres a turkey in the oven & I'm bringing it to moms house & maybe that'll be the tradition for my kids to grow up with & think about when they aint so young anymore.
Merry Christmas & God Bless.