First off, I have hired employees who were commuting 35 miles each way and making $12/hr at a job they hated, but left that job and came to work for me, despite the fact that I started them out at only $10/hr. Partly, because as a small business owner, I can allow them more flexibility (...
try telling your large-corporation-with-great-benefits boss you need to bring your sick ferret to the office so you can check on it every hour or so, feed it a couple times, and give it insulin shots...

), and partly because perhaps they only drive 10 miles a day instead of 70, and save lots of money on gas, as well as TIME they weren't getting paid for.
Secondly, I have two jobs:
- One costs me 5 gallons of gas and 1 hour 20 minutes of time per day to commute to, has ZERO "benefits" because I'm self-employed, and NO "base pay" guarantee. I've occasionally gone 8 or 9 months without a paycheck at that job, although I average about $20-25/hour as long as I am willing to work 65 hours per week, but I'm my own boss, and don't have to ever do stuff I think is crooked or unethical just to make whoever signs my paycheck happy.
The other costs me maybe a half gallon of gas and ten minutes of time per day to commute to, has a guaranteed 'base' pay of $100/hr (four or five times what I've EVER made at the other job), but requires me to do things the way the insurance companies and Medicaid want things done, even if not in the best interest of the patient, and I'm not my own boss.
Guess which job I recently quit...? Happiness and "doing the right thing" is far more rewarding in the long run than just the dollars. When your job requires such intense training that you don't start earning money until age 32, at which point you're $250,000 in debt from student loans, it's easy to forget that, but watching some of the missionaries here on this forum, and some of the people in my community who have "followed their Calling" has convinced me that no matter what the commute or pay scale, you just have to figure out what is "right" to do.
If you can do the "right" thing, and manage to avoid a long commute, so you have more time with your family - that is pretty close to perfection...!
