Lost my best buddy this past weekend :(

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Lost my best buddy this past weekend :(

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I was in Mississippi hunting with my bud Smitty and my wife called crying. One of our welsh terrier's, Lance took ill while I was gone and had to go in for exploritory surgery (they saw a blockage when they did a scan) - no blockage but his pancrease was in bad shape. He aspirated during surgery and they were able to clear it but his lungs filled up with fluid again - they said he didn't have much of a chance of recovering... I told her to let them put him down. He'd been having stomache problems for several months - throwing up and such... They took biopsies of the pancrease and a couple of other things to check - but no use now that he's gone.

I'm really missing him. He was the coolest dog I've ever had - I'm still getting wet-eyed thinking about him...

Got home last night and his little bed was still there next to my night table where he slept - one of his favorite toys there. I nearly broke down when I saw it.

He loved life and was very affectionate. Hardly ever barked and was a real tough little guy. I was his favorite.

He was only 10 years old and in great health until this happened. I sure wish I could've been here to see him off. :cry:
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Sorry for your loss O.S.O.K. :( Dogs hold a special place in our hearts.
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So sorry to hear that. Condolences for your loss.
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Sorry to hear of your friend. I have lost several dogs in my life it never gets easy and you never forget them. :(
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss, OSOK. I know how painful it is. As been said here before, it's a bargin we make with them -- we will take care of them and love them, and they give us their all -- for the 10-12 years (some more, some less) that God blesses us with their presence. It's so hard to let them go, but I believe we will see them again. I can't believe a God of love will keep us from our most loving friends. I know you've seen the Rainbow Bridge write up before. Read it again and keep it in mind for those days that are tough. I still tear up when I think of those special dogs in my life that are no longer with me. And I can't wait for the day when I see them again.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Sorry for your loss OSOK, I know just how you feel, I still think of our wire haired fox terrier we lost over 10 years ago.
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Sorry friend on your loss, it is amazing this special relationship man has with dogs ain't it.
The other day I wondered what I would do if something would happen to Tia and a shudder ran down my spine!

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Thanks guys. I know it will pass but I'm just feeling very empty inside since this happened. I know he was "just" a dog but we had a special bond that I've never had with any other pup. Almost more of a bond than you can have with another person in a way.

Our female was following me around this morning and when I got done in the bathroom, she was laying on Lance's pad curled up next to his toys - something she never did when he was here. I don't know how a dog experiences loss, but she's definately aware that he's gone.

It will just take some time I guess.

In the mean time, I thank God for the many blessings that I and my family have and try to put it all in perspective.
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So sorry for your loss. I lost my dog two years ago now on Christmas. It's ne of those things that you figure will happen at some point, but you are never ready to deal with. The only condolence is that they are no longer in pain.

I've found this quote from Will Rogers helpfull.......

"If dogs don't go to Heaven when they die....Then when I die I want to go where they go...."
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Sorry to hear that OSOK --- sent a quick prayer your way. Our loved ones who go before us are not suffering anymore, but that doesnt take away any pain the ones left behind feel
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Sorry to hear of your sad loss. Dogs often leave us with more fond memories than a lot of humans do.
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I'll put Lance in my prayers and tell my dogs that have passed to keep and eye out for him and show him the ropes. Best to you.
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Sorry for your loss. I lost my buddy of 15 years early this summer, it stinks. But, hopefully they're all at the Rainbow Bridge waiting for us.
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The average fella only lives for about 5 or 6 dogs-worth of life.... :( Not near enough, IMO. Better go get another puppy.
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deerwhacker444 wrote:Sorry for your loss. I lost my buddy of 15 years early this summer, it stinks. But, hopefully they're all at the Rainbow Bridge waiting for us.
I was going to mention the Rainbow Bridge.

Had to wipe my eyes for a bit--something musta got into both at the same time.

There's a Siberian Husky waiting at said bridge for me.

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You have our heartfelt condolences.
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Yea, that really sucks. Life spans should be the other way around----dogs should live to 70 and most people should live a lot less than they do.--------------------Sixgun
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I know how it is. I had to put down 2 old friends this year, both 15. One had cancer, the other arthritis. I hate it.
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I am sorry. You have my sincere condolences.
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Jac, I am so sorry to hear this. Condolences my friend... :(
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LANCE WASN'T "JUST A DOG!"

He was your best friend, one of your kids! nothing "just" about it!

You have my deepest sympathies. I've lost some dogs, but I was lucky enough to be able to hold them and comfort them as they passed over. I don't know how I could take it if I had to give the order via long distance.

You, your wife, the rest of your family have my deepest sympathy. Just know that Lance is waiing for you at Rainbow Bridge..

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I am sorry for your loss, truly. prayers up for you and your family.
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Sorry friend. I have been in that boat many times. With so much love to give, find a new friend. Not to replace, as that can never be done ,but to fill the hole in your heart.
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Again, thank y'all for your kind words and prayers.

Our female "Button" remains with us - for a while, as she is 13 years old now and beginning to show her age.

She is deaf and we didn't realize it, but apprently became reliant on Lance to hear for her when we'd let them out in the yard together. She just stands on the porch now and will tenatively step down and stay right up near the back door unless you go out with her and walk around - then she'll range around the yard as before...
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Sorry to hear it Jac.

That has to be tough. I have two older dogs too and just dread the day I will lose them


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My sincere condolences. It has been a while for me but I know that pain very well. I have two senior dogs right now and I know that I'll face it again.

Take comfort in the fact that you made his life a good one. Think of all the dogs that end up on the end of a rope in the yard or worse. Sounds like your dog was one of the lucky ones.

I hope the sting goes away for you soon and is replaced by the many happy memories.
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I'm so sorry for your loss,, I know how you feel and pray for all great memories..
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My sincere condolences.

I do understand the "best buddy" part. Other than that, well, lets just say I presently have no words.
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Thank you. I am feeling a little better each day. The wife and I talk about it and both are feeling better. We were both kinda surprised at our feelings - the strength of them... but he was a very special dog.
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